Part One: 

Browse through a few Cosmopolitan magazines and you will be sure to find plenty of advice on giving blowjobs. In fact, one might almost get the impression that educating oneself in the art of sucking off a man is an integral part of popular feminine culture. When it comes to licking pussy, however, pop culture has lagged behind on the educational front. Consequently, despite the beautiful complexity of the female body, men are not exposed to the same pressures to educate themselves on the intricate art of going down. There is a lot to learn and this article hardly scrapes the surface. Cunnilingus is worth learning about! And bros, if you think oral sex is a one-way street, it’s time to change gears and listen up! Whether a component of foreplay, a finishing touch, or a five-minute tease on the third floor of the library, cunnilingus can be great fun for both parties and can be an excellent way to bring sensational stimulation to your darling’s down under. The Sex Bomb hopes to shine some light on this beautiful sensual act with some advice that will help you improve your pussy prowess.

Fuck taboos and fuck Alabama state law! While not all women enjoy cunnilingus, for many, it can be simply fantastic. Fact: anyone can become good at cunnilingus with some practice, communication, experimentation, and education. No doubt, if you have spent much time around female genitals, you will have gotten at least a glimpse of the sheer awesomeness and unparalleled beauty of these magnificent organs. Exploring that special someone’s vulva with your mouth can be very enjoyable for both parties.

Firstly, every woman is different. The most important thing to remember is communication. As the recipient, try not to be shy; your partner is down there because they want to be (because your vagina is an amazing place!). They want to please you, so help them! Body language can go a long way: you should constantly be in touch with her responses and try to react accordingly. Reaching for one of her hands can provide a sexy indicator of where she’s at as the tightness of her grip may fluctuate with varying degrees of stimulation. Although reading body language will take you a long way, verbal communication is where good oral sex becomes great. Getting inside your lover’s head is hard to do in silence. If you are the one going down, make sure you tell your partner that you don’t mind instructions. Fact: words are sexy. Take your time while exploring different moves; ask her what she prefers while showing her options. Licking, kissing, gentle sucking, fondling, and fingering can all be wonderful things to play around with. You are directing an orchestra. The trick lies within the patient cumulative stimulation, and engagement of all of her erogenous zones in a way that engages her entire body in sweet, overwhelming pleasure. Immerse yourself in the symphony, explore her, and don’t just jump to the clit! Take your time, employ the art of teasing, and eventually let your focus narrow on her clitoris; perhaps combined with some “come hither” action with a finger or two inside her vagina, if she’s keen. If you are feeling a bit submissive, tell her to feel free to hold onto your head and control the pressure. Have fun experimenting and learning about your partner, and If you like what you’re seeing, tasting, smelling etc., tell her!

Going straight for the clit is usually not the best idea. Unfortunately, mainstream pornography might have you thinking that a quick squeeze of the tits, slap of the ass followed by some possessed tongue flapping directly on the clit will float her boat just fine. Chances are that’ll flop. Stimulating other erogenous zones first such as her neck, ears, breasts, belly and thighs is probably wiser. Don’t forget these areas later on too! Even as you narrow your focus on her clitoris, indirect stimulation through her hood may be preferable. Part two next week, or available now at argosy.mta.ca.

Part Two: 

In terms of positions, have her laying back on a comfortable surface. This gives both of you access to her clitoris and provides an angle that allows the provider to explore in comfort. If you feel you are straining your neck too much, try putting a few pillows under her tush or moving her to the end of a bed or the edge of a couch or chair. Make sure she is comfortable. Try to create a relaxing atmosphere and make sure that she doesn’t get cold (did someone say blanket tent?). For the adventurous: kneeling for her in the shower, or teasing her under the dinner table after “dropping your fork” near the end of a romantic meal, are a couple more far-out cunniligial exploits that can be pursued.

Try straddling her, or kneeling beside her. Migrate your kisses slowly southward from her lips to her thighs, stopping to graze her pubic hair if she has any, while letting out a warm breath and maybe leaving behind a few gentle kisses before migrating north again. Not only is this a great way to make her burn with anticipation, it can be a beautiful way to appreciate your lovers body. She may wish to spread her legs wide and has perhaps started some suggestive gesturing while you’re down there narrowing in on her vulva. You may wish to hold her legs closed while continuing to kiss her thighs and outer labia building the anticipation up even higher. Once you find yourself perched comfortably between her opened legs, relax. Admire her, taste her, and look up to your lover’s face and see how she’s faring. Make sure she knows you are having a blast. I mean, how could you not be?

From here, any numbers of options are possible and it is usually best to switch things up unless you receive assertive demands (either vocal or through body language) to not stop. Many women can reach orgasm through oral sex and if an orgasm seems to be on the horizon, consistent motion and pressure (or potentially increasing pressure) tend to be important.

Cunnilingus can be very tame or downright exhausting, and that’s all part of the fun. She may want some hard licking, in which case get ready for a workout. In some cases, you may find that the requested intensity will require your entire face, which can make breathing a bit of a challenge. Pillows under her ass can help, but holding your breath might be the best way to deal out some intense bouts of all-encompassing oral stimulation. If you’re the one dolling out the fun, you can have her ride your face while you lie on your back. Helping out your partner as he or she goes down on you can be incredibly hot, plus it can offer a break, and an excellent opportunity for them to learn about your pussy preferences. You can also try fucking her with your tongue while asking her to take the wheel of the clit mobile. Don’t forget her nipples, ass, and other erogenous zones: good cunnilingus offers an excellent lesson in multitasking.

We could go on and on with more specific suggestions but that would make this a novel not a column. Do your research: read more extensively about cunnilingus, and for Gooodness sake, learn about female genitals! Remember, excellent cunnilingus requires excellent communication, lots of practice, and experimentation. Not all women enjoy it or can reach orgasm in this way, and that’s also totally fine! It is a constant learning process so make it a fun one!

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